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1918, the worst Christmas ever (from Out of My Hands: Stories of Harold Chapman)

16 Tuesday Dec 2014

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Dad hadn’t stayed far enough away from the man who was sick with the flu but still on his feet. Dad began to complain of aches in his arms and legs, and then chills, and his cough sounded deeper and more persistent. Then Chlora and I got sick  too. Then Mary, our two year old toddler. And three year old Pearl and her twin brother Earl. Mamma  tucked us in bed, made mustard plasters for our chests, and brought in cold water from the well to wipe us down with wet towels. We all were staying downstairs, and she kept the parlor stove going all night.

Dad’s Uncle Joe came a couple of days before Christmas. Dad sent word through Grandpa Hunsaker that all of the family were pretty sick. Uncle Joe was doctor to most of the people in the western part of Jasper County around Wheeler, and to his family too, though they lived mostly in the northeastern part of the county. The moment he stepped inside the house he said, “This place is too closed up and hot. You’ve made a brooderhouse for germs here. We’ve got to open the doors and windows and let the fresh air clear things out.”

Uncle Doc and Mamma went around and opened the windows and doors for the cold air to blow through the house. With the cold air and shivering, we all felt even more miserable. He listened to our chests with his stethoscope, and said he heard the grippe but no pneumonia, and pronounced us “as good as could be expected.” After he left, Mamma kept the house open as long as she could stand it, then shut it up again,  and fired up the stove “to keep us from shivering to death,” she said. I thought that if the flu didn’t kill us the cold would, and I started to wonder about Uncle Joe.

One night Mamma was up all night with Earl. I heard her say she didn’t know whether he would make it through the night. I was afraid. I watched her take all the covers off and all his clothes off and put him in the metal laundry tub with a bucketful of cold water. Then she wiped him down and put the plaster back on his chest, and talked quietly to him so that I could not hear. Earl didn’t seem to hear either. She made some weak tea and tried to get us to drink. She went out and got an old  hen and made chicken soup, and baked some bread and slathered it with butter and tried to get us to eat. That was how we spent Christmas that year. Every one of us was in the only bedroom downstairs or lying around the parlor. Dad didn’t have the strength to go into the woods to find a cedar tree to decorate. I didn’t feel like going either. I hadn’t used an ax to chop down anything bigger than a jimson weed anyway. We were all still coughing.

I began to eat before anyone else did. I could even feel a little hungry again. We were just glad that Earl was beginning to be strong enough to cry. Then three days after Christmas Mamma went to bed. By the next evening she was gone.

“Mable, don’t leave me! I’m so sorry! What am I ever going to do? Don’t go!” I heard Dad crying out in the bedroom. Chlora and Earl and Pearl and I listened and whimpered and looked at each other with big eyes. Grandma Mollie was in the kitchen, and she came and took us away from the bedroom door back into the kitchen, where Mary was tied into a high chair, and baby Alonzo was in his little drawer, the bottom one from the dresser. “Your mamma is gone. My only daughter,” Grandma said. “Now we will have to pull ourselves together and go on living.”  Grandpa Hunsaker was outside on the porch, smoking his pipe as he sat on one of the ladder back chairs he had dragged out there from the kitchen. He climbed onto the seat of the buck wagon, and urged his horses toward Hidalgo, ten miles west, where there was an undertaker,
so he could buy a coffin to bury her.

Christmas at the Warfels, 1930 (from Out of My Hands…Stories of Harold Chapman)

10 Wednesday Dec 2014

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Carl’s family didn’t have any extra money to celebrate Christmas
in their usual way that year. There was no money to buy a tree, and
cedar trees did not grow freely around Tolono as they did on the hills
and scrub areas of Jasper County. Everything in Champaign County
is as flat as flat can be, and the prairies are treeless as far as the eye
can see, except where people plant trees around their houses, and
the rows of osage orange trees planted as fence rows and windbreaks.
Vena decided they were going to decorate a tree anyway. She went
searching and cut the largest dried weed she could find, six feet tall,
and brought it home. She and her little brothers and sisters turned it
into the Christmas tree for their house in 1930. The little ones were
delighted.

Swedish Christmas with the Johnsons…1925 (Out of My Hands: Harold Chapman)

08 Monday Dec 2014

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I didn’t go to church until Christmas, when it was obvious that Mr.  and Mrs. Johnson were eager to have us go. Back home sometimes I  had not attended for several weeks in a row, so I had not given much  thought to going to church here, where I was a stranger to everyone.

The prospect of Christmas services interested me. I had enjoyed hear- ing Christmas hymns and stories at home. Mrs. Johnson hung some suits and dress shirts on the coat pegs in the pantry where we ate. We  took them back to the bunkhouse to try on, and we each found a suit  and shirt that fit well enough. Herman decided he would go with the  Johnsons and me to the Lutheran Church. John and Ira had family in  Rock Island that they would join for Christmas.
The church was a large brick building with a central bell tower in  front with the main entrance below the tower. Inside the church the  abundant boughs of evergreen, silver and gold ribbons, and candles  dazzled me and perfumed the air. The pews rapidly filled from back  to front, and a choir of singers filled the loft that rose behind the high
central pulpit. A spruce tree stood from the floor to the high ceiling on  one side of the loft, filled with candles and ribbons, and a huge organ  covered the front wall with pipes and a carved case. The organ began  to play, filling the large room with wondrous sounds that vibrated the  furniture and the many-colored glass panes in the windows. I sat in awe.

This was so much different from my little frame church in which the  people refused to use instruments. People sang out in both churches  though. Here they sang about Christmas with songs I had never heard,  but they were beautiful.  Toward the end of the service, ushers lighted  candles and passed them from person to person, and the people joined  in singing some songs in Swedish, which must have been about Jesus’
birth, though I didn’t understand a word. I was glad I went. It was really  something!

Mrs. Johnson served Christmas dinner to all of us in the dining  room—honey glazed ham, mashed potatoes and sweet potatoes, a sweet- bread dressing, corn, green beans, a variety of pickled vegetables and  little fish, and many cakes, candies, and puddings. They were all laid  out on a buffet and she called it a smorgasbord. We could keep going  back for more of anything we wanted. Their sons were home, and all of
us made pigs of ourselves. They asked us to say whatever prayers we were  used to saying, and I said Grandpa’s prayer—“Lord, bless this food for  its intended use and us to thy service, and, God, save us. Amen.” The  Johnsons all said a prayer in unison in Swedish, but they had taught us  the English words, too. They were—“Come, Lord, Jesus, be our guest,  and let this food to us be blessed. Amen.”

The Return of Christmas (Ch 22, Out of My Hands: the Stories of Harold Hunsaker Chapman)

04 Thursday Dec 2014

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OOMHWe hadn’t celebrated Christmas for several years. We were all sick with  the flu in 1918, and Mom died just after Christmas. Great-grandpa Ben  Hunsaker had died at Christmas in 1919. In 1920 and 1921 we were just
scraping by in Colorado, and we didn’t think we had anything to celebrate.  Dad died just before Christmas in 1922. The year 1924 was different.  Grandma started it just a few days before Christmas by saying,  “I’m tired of being sad at this time of year. It’s time for us to celebrate
Christmas again.”
Grandpa said simply, “All right.” He immediately sent Earl and me  out into the woods nearby to find a red cedar tree, “about as tall as you  are.” So we took a two-person saw, and we looked for a tree that had a  good shape and that was about my height. We found one, and sawed it  off, and brought it home. I found two two-by-fours, and Grandpa’s brace  and bit, and drilled a hole through the center of the boards. We cut a
couple of blocks the same width as the boards to nail to the bottom of  the ends of one board. With Earl holding the tree sideways and still, I  drilled a hole into the trunk of the tree. We found a seven inch spike in  a bucket of old nails, and we had a tree stand to keep the tree upright.  We proudly took it inside.

Grandma had popped corn and put Pearl, Mary, and little Lon in  charge of stringing the popcorn. Not much of Lon’s portion made it  past his mouth onto the string. They were plainly enjoying the tree-decorating. Grandma supervised the making of popcorn balls in exchange for a promise from little Lon that he would finish the strings.  Then they switched to strings of dried crabapples, so the tree was finally  crisscrossed with red and white garlands.

When the garlands were all on the tree, Grandma disappeared into  her bedroom for a while. She returned carrying a shiny metal star with  a candle holder attached to the front, and a partially burned candle in  it. She gave it to Chlora to crown the treetop.
Christmas morning we got up to a big breakfast. A bowl of oranges  was under the tree, and we each had one of them. There was also a bowl  of hard candy, a handful apiece, Grandma said, and six small boxes. We  children opened the boxes at the same time, and we each had a new pair  of brown cotton gloves. It seemed quite an extravagant occasion.

Grandma asked us what we wanted to eat for Christmas dinner.  What would be special? I had shot two wild rabbits a week before. Earl and Pearl suggested that we hadn’t had rabbit stew for quite a while, and  it would seem special, since we had eaten that stew so many times with Dad and Bonnie. So their suggestion won against the ham or chicken  or goose that the rest of us suggested. With Grandma’s supervision, the rabbit stew was filled with vegetables and potatoes and noodles, and
even small chunks of ham, and it tasted a lot better than any rabbit stew we had eaten before. We also enjoyed apple pie and pumpkin pie.  “Now I can pack my bags,” Grandma said. We looked at each other and wondered what in the world she was talking about.

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